Thinking about hypothetical what-could-have-been, is not love.
Knowing life is going one way and expecting someone to go another, to fill a fantasy. Changing to become someone else’s fantasy. Trying to gauge their fantasy- is not love. Not love. Not love.
Giving up everything with the hope that future dividends will justify the present and past. (The grudges stay and they show, the holes only get bigger with time.) – is not love.
Spinning stories in your head from past anecdotes, good or bad- is NOT LOVE.
Cannot stop thinking about them is not love.
Obsession is not love.
Habit is not love.
Imagination is not love.
Achievement is not love.
Sense of self is not love.
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